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June 01 2012

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Dr Boyce Watkins: Does Michelle Obama want her Kids to be Just Like Beyonce?

A lot of conversation has centered around the growing love affair between first lady Michelle Obama and Beyonce Knowles. Beyonce sent Michelle an extremely nice public letter, sharing her admiration for the first lady. Michelle responded by tweeting “Thank you for the beautiful letter and for being a role model who kids everywhere can look approximately.”

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Perhaps within the spirit of hip-hop, I should have (as Reilly on “The Boondocks” would) said what “pause” and “no homo” before discussing how close these two women have become. But away from respect for President Obama’s announcement in support of gay marriage, I must publicly banish the term “no homo” from my vocabulary.



With that said ,, eyebrows were extra arched as you amazing first lady (Michelle) is now especially chummy having a first lady in their own right (Beyonce). One woman is married to the leader with the free world, and also the other is married towards the world’s most popular slum lord (did I say that?). OK, Jay-Z isn’t a slum lord, but he is a really talented artist who circles the world calling himself a “Ni**a in Paris,” where he even refers to Beyonce as the “b*tch in the home.” When I get married, I don’t expect that my wife will be very happy to hear that I’ve called her a b*tch in public places, regardless how much money some white guy paid me to express it.



However in spite of their superstar husbands, neither of these women are Basketball Wives, whose greatest supply of achievement arises from the difficult work someone else. Beyonce has earned more than her husband Jay-Z, and Michelle would probably make a better president than Barack (well, she'd a minimum of be a better black president).



Both women are beautiful and intelligent wives, mothers, and career women. That point is abundantly clear.



Some wonder, however, if Beyonce is surely an adequate role model for young women. My friend Demetria Lucas at TheRoot.com openly questioned whether or not Michelle needs to be following Beyonce across the country and sending tweets of admiration across cyberspace. I can understand where Demetria is originating from, since we can claim that Beyonce did choose to marry an early drug dealer generating an audio lesson (Soldier) encouraging little girls thus far dudes with “hood status” who “carry big thangs,” “make money three ways,” and “keep it real.” That song irked me to a vast selection, must be great deal of brothers have ended or gone to prison trying to “keep it real” over some nonsense.



But even as take into consideration what Beyonce represents, the great clearly outweighs the unhealthy. She carries herself with a considerable amount of grace, poise and civility that produces her worth her superstar status. She’s unlike Rihanna, seen on a blog every week smoking weed without any top on. She’s not beating women upon television like Evelyn Lozada, and she’s living her life with dignity inside a media space that loves to see black women at their worst.



Is Beyonce a poor role model for black women? I don’t think so. The mutual respect between Michelle, Oprah Winfrey and Beyonce represents growing empowerment among women in a country where women now officially comprise a lot of the American workforce. Michelle and Beyonce aren't feminists, they're womanists. They are proud to become feminine, accept some traditional gender roles, but command the respect that they deserve. They know they don’t require a man, nevertheless they allow themselves to need good men in order to make their relationships work - that produces them both powerful and lovable, that is an incredible combination.

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I don’t feel that Michelle wants Sasha and Malia to cultivate up and marry their own version of Jay-Z (if Malia’s boyfriend ever calls her a b*tch, he might result in Guantanamo Bay). But, there are some stuff that they could study from their mother’s friends, all of whom show them a little bit of what it really methods to be an empowered black woman in the usa. That sounds very good to me.

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